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  AAWA is here!! (The Association of Anti-Watchtower Activists)

  by cedars in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcic4g5tulw.

  http://www.jwactivists.org.

  facebook the association of anti-watchtower activists.

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  Black Sheep

  If someone added you to a group you didnt wanted to be part of.......you can always remove yourself from that group....

  That is a really good solution for those that know they have been added before the proverbial hits the spinney thing. I have my doubts that there wasn't a quick solution, like deleting the compromised account and starting over with better protection in place.

  How many don't know they have been added yet? Just because you check your FB every day doesn't mean every ex-JW does the same.
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  AAWA is here!! (The Association of Anti-Watchtower Activists)

  by cedars in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcic4g5tulw.

  http://www.jwactivists.org.

  facebook the association of anti-watchtower activists.

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  Black Sheep

  truthseekeriam

  So who exactly should be worried about being outed? I'm kinda confused.

  The period between finding out the WT is a scam and being out, is the best chance to free your family and friends as they trust you and will still talk to you.

  Encouraging a waking JW to waste this period by outing themselves prematurely is not doing their families any favours and has the WT hierarchy doing the happy happy joy joy dance because one of their best tricks has fooled another leaver.
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  AAWA is here!! (The Association of Anti-Watchtower Activists)

  by cedars in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcic4g5tulw.

  http://www.jwactivists.org.

  facebook the association of anti-watchtower activists.

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  Black Sheep

  Some of you seem to think that there are only two options, faded or out, but they are the Watchtower's preferred options because they both render you relatively harmless to them.
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  Getting serious for Julia!!

  by Julia Orwell in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  no, there's no jc scheduled for me, though i've heard from a friend on the boe that the inquisitor is about to get inquisited himself.

  you will see who i mean in this thread: .

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/246766/1/julias-inquisition-two-elders-the-full-version-i-want-you-all-to-see-this.

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  Black Sheep

  Ask your husband to comment on this.

  Do not provide your own opinion

  http://nymag.com/daily/intelligencer/2011/05/rapture.html
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  Just need to know

  by free2beme in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  have not been as regular on this site, as i was years ago.

  so i need to know, which posters here are playing the characters of ones who either claim they speak to god, are god, speak to an angel, hears god's voice in their head, are a prophet or any other numerous form of that character.

  some times those folks come up and bite me when i forget those sort of characters in the play are here.

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  Black Sheep

  I feel it's best to be able to recognise them by their attributes, rather than having a list.

  I think some of the newbie god/jesus/messiah nutters are reincarnations of older ones. Some because they trashed their own characters in their past lives here, some, the minority, because they can't remember their old passwords. I have no idea why lars keeps changing his user name. His/her/it quickly IDs as hisheritself.

  Some may be portraying themselves as converts/whatever of the original nuttter, even though they may be that nutter.

  My list, if I bothered to write one up, I am sure would be different to everyone else's, including your own.

  ...and what is that avatar??? It has always intrigued me.... it's like some kind of wierd scarab beetle, but I know it's not.
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  how do you cope with the stress of fading?

  by brainmelt in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm really struggling with it.

  i've been learning the ttatt for the past 6 months now and i've been inadvertantly fading - either one of us or the children have had coughs/colds/flu/chicken pox/stress over the past 3 months which has meant we've missed a lot of meetings and field service with good reason.

  we've only been out in service twice this year, so far no ones mentioned it to us but i'm waiting for our group overseer to bring it up anytime soon.

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  Black Sheep

  Give yourself something constructive to do. Here is my suggestion.

  Get a book on critical thinking and study it. If you choose this one Teach Your Child How to Think, study it with your husband, asking him to take the lead in preparation for studying it with his children. Make him analyse any excuse he tries to use not to do this. Make him honestly defend any reason he gives for why the book shouldn't be studied, or is wrong.

  Then ....

  Don't let your husband avoid thinking things through. He has to understand that his doubts are soundly based .... NOT YOUR DOUBTS ...... HIS DOUBTS, so do not express your opinions and doubts, make him confront his through questioning.

  Nobody is free from any cult until they fully understand it is a scam. Your best chance of getting any family member to see the scam is before they ID you as apostate, weak in the faith, opposer, whatever, so son't blow your advantage by outing yourself prematurely.
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  Anyone have a scan/copy of October 2012 BOE letter? It may help Candace's appeal..

  by The Quiet One in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  "the brief statedthat [ t]hat letter [a 1997 letter to boe] also confirmed watchtower's long-standing policy that a known child molester does not qualify to be appointed to a position of responsibility in any congregation.

  " http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/watchtower/child-abuse/250093/1/summary-of-wt-appeal-brief-in-conti-case.

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  Black Sheep

  Big Mama,

  Anything digital can be made available without the need to exchange email addys.

  There is a link to one of the websites offering a suitable service in this thread already.
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  "Crises Of Conscience"

  by mouthy in

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  Black Sheep

  I have a copy in New Zealand that I have been loath to donate to my library because of the problems with theft.
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  Getting serious for Julia!!

  by Julia Orwell in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  no, there's no jc scheduled for me, though i've heard from a friend on the boe that the inquisitor is about to get inquisited himself.

  you will see who i mean in this thread: .

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/246766/1/julias-inquisition-two-elders-the-full-version-i-want-you-all-to-see-this.

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  Black Sheep

  "You can listen in on the phone you know"

  Dial it.

  At least they can't ring you while your phone is off the hook.
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  My quick introduction

  by Adam Believed in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hi, all.. ive been lurking and reading for many months now.

  i have been an active member of jwrecovery for sometime now.

  its iphone friendly!

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  Black Sheep

  I mean, don't waste the time between you realising that you are in a cult and when you out yourself.

  Most of us blow our chance of taking our families out with us by IDing ourselves as the WT's dreaded APOSTATES before we remember all of the warnings that the WT gave our families that will ID us as 'the enemy'/Satan's minions/whatever. Talking to people who are less important than your family members about your doubts about the WT has a huge failure rate if the comments on this forum are anything to go by.

  I would prefer that you learn from our mistakes, rather than your own.